In the Service of Social Harmony, Politeness Often Discourages the Expression

question 27

Essay

In the service of social harmony, politeness often discourages the expression of negative emotions (even if they are felt) and encourages the expression of positive emotions (even if they aren't felt). In what ways is this good for the individual and/or the society? In what ways is it bad? Using what you know about emotion, make a case for and a case against politeness (as it relates to emotional expression).

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Definitions:

External Attribution

The process of attributing one's own behavior or the behavior of others to external factors or situations.

Altruism

Behavior that is aimed at helping another, requires some self-sacrifice, and is not performed for personal gain.

Conformity

Changing or adopting a behavior or an attitude in an effort to be consistent with the social norms of a group or the expectations of other people.

Compliance

Acting in accordance with the direct requests of other people.