A Close Friend Confides to You That She Is Upset

question 27

Essay

A close friend confides to you that she is upset because she is arguing with her sister. As an empathic listener, you might support, interpret, or question and you might offer a content paraphrase or feelings paraphrase. Describe each response type, and for each, give a sample response you could give in this situation. The book recommends avoiding prejudging or advising. Describe these responses and give an example of each.

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Definitions:

Algorithm

A step-by-step procedure or formula for solving a problem, typically used in computing and mathematical problem-solving.

Stroop Effect

A demonstration of cognitive interference where a delay in the reaction time of a task occurs due to a mismatch in the name of a color and the color in which it is printed.

Saccades

Rapid, ballistic movements of the eyes that change the point of fixation, allowing the visual system to scan different parts of the environment.

Recovered Memories

Memories of events that were consciously forgotten or repressed, which are later recalled, sometimes with the help of therapy.